Crazed????17:52 Nov 23 2011
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So this particular incident that I'm going to tell you about happened last Monday. I got the thought in my mind to write about in my journal perhaps, to release and free myself from this incident. Okay here goes.... So there is this gentleman an African male named Bismark. He is attracted to me and before we became acquainted he would give me looks of lust and he would make a point to say hi to me when we were at school. Being cordial, I would exchange pleasantries. Eventually, we struck up a friendship. I gave him my number and we would text and talk randomly. So, he expressed to me he wanted more than a friendship and I am not interested at this time which I told him. My exact words were "Let's be friends" original eh? Well he didn't seem hurt or fazed so we continued to talk and be friends. One time, we were walking to the train and I was about to get on the train, I asked him to give me hug and he did but, he tried to kiss me like we were a couple. It grossed me out and I unlocked the embrace and left him at the train station. After that, he would call and text but I wasn't really interested in corresponding with him so I blew it off. So, fast forward to last Monday, I always come early to school to get on the computer since I don't have one at home. We usually see each other around this time so nothing was out of the ordinary. Okay, so at this time I am at the computer, he comes up to me and we greet each other and he tells me "I call and text you this weekend, why didn't you answer?" Paraphrasing. And I tell him, "I was busy and I have work to do". So, it seems he got upset and he punched me! Right in the side of my stomach. It was not a brutal punch but it was enough power in it to capture my attention. I was in complete shock. I didn't want to cause a scene so I didn't go ballistic. But, I did say "Ouch". After I said that he tried to play it off like he was joking which he wasn't. I never been assaulted like that before and I honestly didn't know how to react. I went home that night and thought about it. And I came to the conclusion that someone who cannot control their anger in a public setting is someone who I do not want to be friends with. So I sent him a text ending the friendship and to not come near me again. That Wednesday, I had class and when I went to break, he came to the class looking for me. I wasn't there because I went to the library but my classmate told me he was looking for me. I don't know why since I previously ended the friendship. So ever since then, I have not heard from him but I did see him once. This incident is kinda scary for me but I know I don't deserve to have someone use aggressive force against me. For a "friend" to do something like that is out of my realm. I don't need anyone like that in my life. I feel happy about the decision I made because if I allowed that incident to continue who knows what this guy might have tried. And, things would have gotten ugly because I would have had to defend myself. My dead grandmother would have came back from her grave if she knew I was in an abusive relationship of any kind. Plus, the women in my family take no shit from any male. But, I don't know what the hell that guy was thinking and frankly I don't care. I told all my friends about it and they were just as shocked and clueless as I was about what could have triggered this but its in the past now. And this person dare not come near me or speak to me. Any advice is welcome from someone who reads this.
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Angelus
16:07 Nov 26 2011
good on you.